Sigh, thats why i was trying to ask and tell him.
He is keeping both mothers away from each other and providing
for them.
No, he is not married to either of them.
And both mothers does not know that the other exists.
i was just trying to remind him that the fall-out may be
horrible. But he is very convinced that as long as he
provides for them, there will no fallout. He is also planning
on abandonement if things do flare up.
absolutely wrong conclusion. providing for them financially does
not equate to no fallout.
i really pity the kids - they'll be the ones bearing the brunt
of things when adults tear at each other (which i'm quite sure will
happen).